Why did my ex move on so quickly?

and so on.

Of the ones I was able to talk to about it all rationally later, some of them admitted they “used” a new “hook up” the same way some people use drugs, to dull the upset over our breakup; some said (perhaps as revenge) that I was easy to replace; some said they just got lucky. Most didn’t stay with the quick replacement, but a few even “panic married” the replacement, as part of being upset about the breakup.

Such as, if your ex moved on fast because they never actually loved you;

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

Different tack: I don’t think you asked what you want to know, you asked what you’ve heard other people ask.

I know from my own “misadventures” in love, that my ex’s were able to move on quickly because they were more attractive than I am, and far less shy, and sometimes because they were far less picky than I am.

What I suspect you really want to know, is one or more specific questions.

Why are people becoming increasingly hostile to pro-lifers? I am pro-life.

or if they moved on quickly because they were secretly starting up with their current person before you broke up;

or if they moved on fast because they can control their emotions like a simple light bulb;